“Mending Fences, Healing Hearts: The Top 10 Keys to a Better Relationship with Your Adult Children”

You’re overwhelmed with feelings of hopeless resignation. “What’s the use? Nothing works. Now What?”

Mending Fences Healing Hearts starts right where you are. It begins by re-energizing your dwindling hope with practical ways to build a better relationship with your adult children. Dr. Chuck Lynch, author, biblical counselor, and international speaker on family issues, has helped many discouraged parents mend broken relationships with their adult children.

 

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  • Chapter 1 begins by restoring your perspective. You are done parenting. Now, you must view your kids as adults like God does, even if they are not acting like adults. Failure to grow up does not excuse a person from adulthood.
  • Dr. Lynch describes in chapter 2 the first practical step to take. It’s a hard one. Rather than talking to them parent-to-child, adjust your communication style to adult-to-adult. That one change has mended many relational fences. Talking down to them doesn’t motivate them to grow up.
  • In chapter 3 learn how to advise when asked or what to do when they don’t choose to follow your advice or don’t even ask for it. There is a way to open a closed mind. One thing that tears you up is their failure to fulfill your expectations and dreams.
  • Chapter 4 shows how to adjust your expectations to fit today’s reality and gain some welcome peace. Undoubtedly, you did the best you could with the information and maturity you had when you raised them, but you made a few mistakes.
  • In chapter 5, discover how to give and receive forgiveness from the heart and stop being controlled by guilt and regret. You’ll be able to distinguish between forgiveness and trust as it relates to your kids. It’s possible to wipe the slate clean.
  • Chapter 6 makes it clear how to get off the emotional roller coaster and regain some emotional stability yourself. Sure, you love your kids but they may not feel it.
  • Chapter 7 focuses on how to love your kids from their perspective in a healthy way.
  • In chapter 8, learn how good it feels to establish some healthy boundaries and watch what happens through the power of personal responsibility. You’ve worked hard for what you have today.
  • Chapter 9 presents a strategy to dispense your resources wisely and stop feeling like you have to be your adult children’s walking ATM. Grand children are the joy of your heart, however, the way they’re parented or not parented can be a source of pain.
  • The key in chapter 10 is how to be a wise grandparent, regardless of what others are doing. Every relationship involves conflict. That’s not bad. How you deal with conflict can be.
  • The four key elements described in chapter 11 bring personal peace, even if no one else changes.

 

What are other’s saying about the book?

I have gotten it out and read and re-read some of the chapters. I am especially zeroing in on the parts about letting go, becoming a mentor instead of a parent, and acceptance, not approval. Thank you for sharing some of your wisdom with us, it definitely makes sense, and without it, we would probably have taken a different route in this situation.- Betty Grimes
“The book was excellent, and I have already referred several to it. Overall, it is very systematic and clear. Many of the principles seem to be common sense, but I am still very aware that a lot of parents nonetheless miss them. But you go beyond common sense, things you could assume everyone ‘should’ know, and you give a lot of insight and understanding.” - Bev Leckie

“I have finished reading your book on Adult Children… Lynn and I were able to get away for a weekend and during this time I set out to read and I found it very good. I have told others about the book also. I am sure they may have read other works, but I had not read much myself so I found it enlightening, instructive and encouraging. It deserves a second read especially by me.” - Larry Gray
“Hi Chuck & Linda. So far I (Chuck) have read it once and am now reading it for the second time. Jan is waiting for her turn. It is very good and has already put some pieces together on several individuals we are working with. Keep writing. We are enjoying your insight and wisdom through your knowledge and past experiences.” - Chuck Carr

“Just wanted to pass along a short conversation with a gal at church last night. She was saying that a friend of hers made certain statements that she picked up on and right away gave her the  book and she read it immediately and got back to us about how amazing it all was and the lady already took it to her ladies Bible study she goes to and they were going to use it as a Bible study for all the ladies going through many of the same issues with their own children and needed to apply the Scriptures and principles from your material.” - Chuck and Jan Carr
“Chuck, I’ve finished reading your book and I think it’s fantastic! You cover so much and you are so practical—you not only present the problems but guide parents step-by-step through how to deal with them. Some of it deals specifically with prodigals. I’ll tell you, I don’t know many moms who know how to build relationships with daughter-in-laws or how to re-build relationships with sons when they marry. Your book reaches all categories of parent/adult child relationships. I’m really grateful you got it written, for your potential market is huge and growing.” – Cherilyn McCoy

 

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Package 3 comes with the following bonuses

Bonus 1: Sermon .mp4

Dr Lynch recently recorded this 90 minute sermon covering additional information to explain his thought process for Mending Fences, Healing Hearts.

Value: $60

Bonus 2: Sermon .mp3

We know that many of you are on the go. We converted Bonus 2 into an .mp3 podcast to upload to your favorite mobile music player. This is iTunes® compatible.

 

Value: $30

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